You know the feeling I’m talking about. It’s what lights up your senses and makes everything – rain or shine – better. Sunscreen and pine needles smell better, sun rises sing, fires dance, that cup of coffee seems to be roasted just for your and shopping has never been better. It’s that feeling you swear you’re going to keep after you return home. It’s that feeling that leaves exactly 13 hours after returning home, no matter what.
Is it just about having control of your schedule? It can’t be. I’ve been on vacations with packed calendars under someone else’s control. I’ve worked on vacation, had colds, hangovers, backaches and one really nasty spider bite that required a trip to the clinic, antibiotics and steroids. I still had the vacation feeling and it still left once I got home… even though the work, cold, hangover, backache and spider bite didn’t go home with me. What the hell?
It’s not just about new surroundings either. I’ve traveled on business too many times to believe that. So… that feeling is more about FEELING than anything else. Dammit… once again, the responsibility belongs on my shoulders – or rather, between my ears. It is actually under my control.
Alright, what are the common denominators of the vacation feeling?
Looking and seeing as though what is in front of you is fresh
That’s really it. Seeing with a vacation perspective is what gives the vacation feeling and seeing the dull, same old work-a-day world from which one escapes removes the feeling.
So… the difference is just perspective. THAT MEANS I CAN HAVE THE VACATION FEELING ANY TIME I WANT IT!
So, I’m going to experiment with that. I figure all I have to do, is do things differently. I’m about to drink a cup of tea before bed, wear my fancy pajamas, sleep on the other side of the bed… maybe I’ll sleep in the guest room tomorrow night.
As for work tomorrow, lets see… I can drive a different route, take two 30 minute breaks instead of an hour lunch and use a different bathroom.
I need something to remind me to look at things differently. LOOK differently. SEE differently.
When I’m on vacation, I take time to appreciate my surroundings and circumstances. That’s what I need to do. I need to appreciate – to love what is around me. Should I wear cocoa butter and that silly little ring I bought at the beach two years ago? Hell yes – it’s worth a shot.
I’m going on vacation right now!!!